How to Handle Your ADHD Child During the Holidays (Without Therapy)

Posted on Dec 5 2017 - 5:44pm by My Little Villagers
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Parents of children with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) have a hard enough time dealing with everyday life, but the holidays can be a nightmare for some.  However, it does not have to be.  There are ways to make the holidays easier for you and your child, because let’s face it, when things are hard on you, it is hard on your child as well.

It Really is About Structure

When school is closed, your child has way too much free time and anyone with children knows this is not good, even for kids without ADHD.  With a child that has ADHD, too much free time can be a major headache for everyone in the house.  Your child needs to stick to a schedule whether school is in session or not.

Now, I know this may be easier said than done, but to be honest, it is all up to you to set the schedule and it will make your life much more comfortable.  Here are some tips to help with schedules during the holidays:

  • Stick to a similar plan as you would during school.
  • Eat regular meals at set times.
  • Keep them busy with chores and other activities they can follow on a chore list.
  • Plan physical activities for your child, even when it is cold outside. They need to get plenty of exercise.
  • When visiting friends and family, be sure to list the rules and what the benefits of following them are on a “cheat sheet” for them to read and follow.
  • If your child takes medication, make sure your child takes his or her medication at the right time every day.
  • Find time to spend one on one with your child every day.
  • Make sure the rest of the family is involved in the planning and following of the rules.

Make A Calendar

Construct a calendar for your child that includes all the daily activities, things such as family outings, game night, and even meals. They can help by thinking of ideas of what they may like to do during their free time.  Hang the calendar somewhere you can both see it every day, such as the refrigerator.  Then make sure you both go over it every day, so your child knows what is going on and what he or she will be doing.

Set Rewards and Consequences

Be sure your child knows what  is expected of him or her and what he or she will get if they follow the rules.  Positive reinforcement is very important to those with ADHD and it can mean the difference between a holiday of horrors or a fun family vacation.

Make sure the details and instructions are in small increments and maintain eye contact when talking to your child.  Write things down and have him or her keep the notes as reward tickets, so they can turn them in later for their rewards after a day of good behavior.

This is essential.  Children with ADHD are not good with waiting so they need to be rewarded within a short period to have the best effect.  For example, if your child was on his or her best behavior at Grandma and Grandpa’s house, he or she can turn in their reward ticket on the way home for a special treat, like playing their favorite video game for a hour longer than usual or staying up late to watch television.

Help Yourself Too

It is hard on you as a parent to deal with your child’s ADHD along with other daily activities and responsibilities.  You need to take the time to help yourself too.  You may just need to talk to someone, like a friend or family member.  However, sometimes you need to talk to a professional to help you deal with your anxiety, depression, and other emotions you may be feeling.

Some online therapists and counselors can help you appropriately anytime you need them and no appointment is required.  Just go online and answer a few questions and they will find you someone trained in whatever you need to talk about.

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